The gray skies, luckily no longer rain-filled, remind me of soft things and lazy days. In keeping with this general theme, it was a slow and lazy weekend, not terribly ambitious, but more or less relaxed, especially after the rain stopped on Saturday.
Saturday was a little busier, just with moving buckets around the family room and kitchen catching the leaks. They seemed to move about along a fixed path, and there was constant re-adjusting of bucket location, followed by a chorus of pings and pops. When the music stopped, it was time to move the buckets, not as I always hoped, a signal that the drips had ceased. The masons actually came on Sunday morning to cap the chimneys, and three hours and about 2000 pounds of concrete later they were done. Tomorrow they will come add a cricket to the roof to drain water from behind the rather massive chimney and finish the flashing. Hopefully this week’s rains will remain outside where they belong.
After the rain on Saturday we went down to the Samuel F. B, Morse estate for their annual gala. It is an outdoor event under a tent, planned to take advantage of their spectacular gardens and the height of the peony blooms. The rain did not help and even the peonies looked a little bedraggled. The humans crowded into the indoor spaces hoping to stay dry and not wilt in the heat of so many in a small space.
I had been frazzled that morning rearranging my evening wardrobe choices. The original garment was long and delicate, made of fine silk, and I was reluctant to drag the hem through the wet grass and mud. G picked an outfit for me that I would never have chosen, pointing out that I don’t have to worship at the shrine of Armani for every event, but which ended up being perfect. I truly had not noticed that the invitation had not specified black tie this year, I assumed it was the same as in the past. I wore a heavily beaded Indian printed cotton skirt, long, just above the ankle, with strappy black sandals. It is a skirt I have never been able to figure how to wear. I would put it on and try outfits and take it off – I love the piece but it was always too ethnic, too heavy, too something. I had a matching red silk sweater set which was perfect, simple and classic, and just the right combination with the skirt. The whole thing was set off by several pieces of large turquoise jewelry. A bracelet of Chinese turquoise:
And an American Indian turquoise pendant:
And I felt very festive and yet not too dressed. Perfect for a summer garden party with a bit of dancing. This revising of my image of myself is proving very interesting.
Sunday we puttered in the garden watching the masons sweating on the roof and then we wandered off to the Farmer’s Market and a little grocery shopping. That afternoon we headed over to a neighbor’s house for a “barbecue”, which prompted a little discussion in our small household.
G wants to know why the term “barbecue” is used when someone is just cooking burgers or hotdogs, or if you are lucky, chicken and steak, on a grill, most commonly a gas grill. European born and bred, barbecue was not a part of his early cultural training. Barbecue is something he encountered later, in college in North Carolina, and the term will forever be linked in his mind with Carolina style pulled pork.
Truthfully I can’t answer. When I invite people over to food prepared on the grill, I still think in terms of the probably old-fashioned term “cookout” and reserve “barbecue” for when we are, indeed, serving barbecue. Although with my Texas roots, my definition of barbecue encompasses a variety of cuts beef and pork as well as various sausages. Is this a regionalism, like the terms soda, pop, and, in certain parts of the country, plain old “coke” used for any carbonated soft drink, or is it a shift in usage?
Anyway, there was no barbecue: just the standard cookout fare: hotdogs, hamburgers, potato salad and cole slaw. We came home sated and tired and settled down to watch The 4400 while I knitted. Otto is progressing. His soft colors fit the weather and my mood. I have begun the armhole shaping.
I have calculated that there are only 78 more rows before the shoulders.
Oh, and I have some pulled pork barbecue waiting for G when he comes in from mowing.